Using the Holidays to Share Your Healthcare Wishes with Your Family

The holidays are a special time to slow down, gather around the table, and reconnect with the people who matter most. Amid the twinkling lights, shared meals, and familiar traditions, there’s often something else present too: meaningful conversations that don’t always happen during our busy everyday lives. The holidays can  present an opportunity to share your healthcare wishes.

While planning your busy week of Christmas celebrations, this time also presents a natural chance to discuss something very important—your healthcare wishes. These talks might feel uncomfortable initially, but when handled with care, they become a meaningful gift to your loved ones: clarity, reassurance, and peace of mind.

Start with a Positive Frame

Begin by emphasizing why you want to talk. Stress it is not out of fear, but out of care. Let your family know that planning ahead is about empowerment and making sure your voice is heard, no matter what the future holds. You might share what quality of life means to you, how you feel about life-sustaining treatment, pain management, or who you would trust to speak on your behalf if needed.

The holidays can also be a gentle time to let your family know if you’ve already completed key documents, such as a Georgia Advance Directive for Healthcare or a Durable Financial Power of Attorney. Make sure to share where those documents are kept!

Try New, Low-Pressure Conversation Starters

If a formal “sit-down talk” feels overwhelming, consider softer approaches:

• Use a story or article as a starting point: “I read something recently that made me think…”
• Share values, not decisions: “What matters most to me is comfort and dignity.”
• Ask questions first: “Have you ever thought about what you’d want if you were in my shoes?”
• Tie it to the season: “This time of year makes me grateful—and it got me thinking about planning ahead.”

Organizations like The Conversation Project offer helpful prompts that encourage thoughtful, judgment-free dialogue.

There Are No Right or Wrong Answers

These conversations aren’t about achieving perfection. They focus on understanding, listening, and opening the door to ongoing discussions. Family members might have different viewpoints, which is okay. The most important thing is creating space for honesty and mutual respect.

Remember, this isn’t just about you. Clear communication today can spare your loved ones confusion, stress, and heartache in the future. The holidays, centered on love and connection, are a meaningful time to begin.

Getting Help Is Easy

At Hurley Elder Care Law, we help families prepare for future healthcare and life changes with compassion and clarity. Having a well-thought-out estate plan is one of the best ways to protect your wishes and the people you love.

If you’re ready to start the conversation or want guidance on next steps, call 404-843-0121 to schedule a meeting with our experienced elder law team.

From all of us at Hurley Elder Care Law, we wish you a joyful holiday and a peaceful New Year.